Sunday, August 16, 2015

August 13, 2015 "8 appointments in one day!"

Today began bright and early. We got up at 4am! Rayden's first appointment was at 7:45!

MRI-We are getting all too familiar with the MRI process. The technicians actually recognize us. That's pretty bad! Rayden doesn't like to be strapped down but tolerates it pretty good until the noise starts. Then he screams the entire time. The good part is that it doesn't last too long. It's a Rapid Sequence MRI, so it lasts about 10 min. The results are getting better each time-"A little LESS fluid and a little MORE brain tissue."

Renal Ultrasound- Rayden's kidney's and bladder look good. Still no back flow, meaning there is still NO NEED to catheterize him! This is fabulous news. We are praying that he never has to be cathed.

Opthamology- We've been noticing that Rayden's left eye is still looking inward toward his nose (crossing). Dr. Gertsch says that the swelling of his optic nerve is all gone but the pressure from his last shunt infection may have caused him to have Sixth nerve palsy (weakness of the nerve that innervates the lateral rectus muscle). This muscle pulls the eye away from the nose but when it is weak, the eye crosses inward toward the nose. This of course causes Rayden to have delayed visual maturation and blurred vision. Which may explain some of his hand-eye coordination issues. It is possible for this to correct itself in about 6 months so he suggests we just watch and give it time for now. If it does not improve he may suggest surgery to maximize eye alignment.

Spina Bifida Clinic
Dr. Alexander- Rayden is growing so fast. He is rolling over now and trying to sit up. He is extremely vocal! Although most children his age have already mastered these skills, Dr. Alexander says not to compare Rayden to them. He will be meeting milestones on 'Rayden time.' As long as he is still improving and growing Dr. Alexander says he is not concerned. He did another sensation test on Rayden. He broke a wooden toothpick-looking stick and poked his legs in various places. Dr. Alexander reports that Rayden acts like he is more of an L3 rather than L4. L3 is higher up the spine meaning he does not have any feeling in his butt, backs of legs, ankles or feet. He can still move his legs and WILL one day be able to walk though. We knew this was a possibility before Rayden was born so this comes as no surprise. We will just have to teach Rayden how to walk differently than other children. We will also have to teach him to examin his legs daily. He has poor circulation down his legs into his feet which makes his feet and ankles turn purple often. We will also have to teach him to massage his legs to promote circulation. Rayden doesn't like loud, sudden sounds. Dr. Alexander says this is common in children that suffer from hydrocephalus. He says it will improve with time, nothing really to be concerned about.

Physical Therapy- Cathy Howes made some good suggestions for helping Rayden sit up. He can't really sit in those chairs where his legs hang because of his circulation issues. Placing pillows on both sides of his body so he can prop sit easier rather than trying to prop on the floor is one idea that I think will make Rayden happy. He hates propping on the floor. The boppy pillow doesn't seem to work either because he just throws himself back because he knows it's back there. He needs a lot of tummy time to strengthen his core, although he doesn't really like it.

Urology- Rayden's left testicle remains undescended (Cryptorchidism). Cryptorchidism is the most common genital abnormality in boys, affecting approximately 30% of baby boys born prematurely and about 4% born at term. If left untreated it can cause infertility or other medical problems. Therefore, Dr. Ross is going to schedule surgery in September to correct this. (Surgery #8)

Orthopaedics- Rayden's Wheaton Braces are getting too small. Dr. Narotam is ordering him some new ones. They say Rayden's feet remain too small for custom fit AFO's. {I can't wait for him to get them.} Of course, Dr. Narotam reminded us that Rayden may need surgery around 1 year old to correct the tightening of his achilles tendon. He also wanted me to be aware and not get upset if Rayden needs to go back in casts from time to time throughout his life.

Neurology- Although Dr. Alexander measured 46cm head circumference, Gretchin only got 45.5cm so all is well. MRI adjusts the setting of the shunt needing it to be reset after each test. Since Rayden's MRI was at 7:45am and we didn't see neuro until 5pm it was off for hours! This explains why he was getting angry and started throwing up. Gretchin tested and reset his shunt back to 2.0.

Even though our day was extremely busy we found time to visit and encourage a fellow fetal surgery mom in the hospital. I remember when Becca did this for me when I was in the hospital and it meant so much. Some of the nurses were there and were able to meet Rayden. Michael and I spent an entire month (December) on third floor with these women. They took such great care of us. We even found time to have a nice lunch and take a tour of Bye Bye Baby. That place is amazing!!

Tuesday, August 11, 2015

August 11, 2015 "Redefining Spina Bifida"

These are the 3 articles in Redefining Spina Bifida that feature Rayden. Thank you Tammy Bunn for taking such wonderful pictures. Thanks to Jennifer Williamson for making Rayden such an awesome cape and mask. Thanks to Kathryn Honeycutt for buying Rayden the most perfect onsie to match the cape.


No family plans to have a child with spina bifida – the diagnosis and journey is one that no one expects or wishes for. As devastating as the news seems when families first learn of the diagnosis – once a child is born with spina bifida our children are surrounded by so much love. Families often recognize that their child is a gift that they were blessed with for very special reasons. They continue to remind us just how amazingly special this journey can be.

Our little friend Rayden was born late last year and is now 8 months old. After undergoing fetal surgery he arrived at 33 weeks due to his hydrocephalus progressing significantly in utero. He's underwent a few shunt surgeries and challenges in his first year but he continues to smile and bring his family so much joy.

photography by Tammy Bunn Treasured Moments Photography
#spinabifida #redefiningspinabifida #hydrocephalus



Our friend Rayden was born with spina bifida and hydrocephalus about 8 months ago. Can you sense he's just as curious as other babies his age? Never forget that babies born with spina bifida are babies first.

All to often parents may worry about the challenges of spina bifida when their babies are young – what advice do you have for other parents raising a baby with spina bifida?

photography by Tammy Bunn
#spinabifida #redefiningspinabifida




Many of our families consider our children born with spina bifida to be our "heroes" and it's not uncommon to consider them a superhero. They surely do show their strength from a very young age and overcome so many challenges beginning as a baby that many grown adults don't face in their entire lifetime.
If you find yourself admiring your own little superhero born with spina bifida let us know – we'd love to see a picture and hear about how they've overcome the challenges that may occur with spina bifida.
Rayden's family has shared his story on their blog since before he was born – we think you'll be touched to see it: http://raydensreason.blogspot.com/
Do you have a blog or facebook page to share your experiences with spina bifida in your or your child's life? If so post a link – we'd love to see them.

August 10, 2015 "Home!"

Monday (Day 7)- Rayden's MRSA was almost dried up and crusting over this morning. I'm super excited!! This antibiotic seemed to do the trick quickly. Dr. Elton said we were clear to go home as long as Rayden took the clindamycin orally.

The floor doctors were so disappointed when they came in and Rayden was asleep. They all said, "NOOO! We wanted to get some laughs this morning!" As if on que, he woke up and smiled but went right back to sleep. This kid is just too precious!

At 10 am the nurse brought in the Clindamycin for us to try. It smells and tastes terrible but Rayden took it. I believe he wanted to go home just as bad as Mommy.

This hospital visit had to be one of the best so far. Rayden was not in any pain, did not have surgery, and I could sleep in the room with him. They put his IV in his foot so he couldn't feel it and he was able to use his hands. He wasn't even connected to the monitors this time! A totally different experience for us both.

Although we were excited to go home, the best part of our day was that Dr. Goodnight came to visit. He is the Maternal-Fetal Medicine doctor that took care of me during my pregnancy, and performed the fetal surgery. We like to refer to him as our hero. He seemed just as happy to see Rayden as we were to see him.

Sunday, August 9, 2015

August 9, 2015 "UNC again! Day 6"

Sunday-(Day 6) Rayden slept so well last night. I can't believe it! He didn't wake up one time. Now, why won't he do that at home? Of course, I couldn't sleep though. The TV in this room came on by itself about 5 times and I had to get up to turn it off. Weird!!! Not to mention-who can sleep in a hospital? (Rayden apparently, haha!)

After two rounds of antibiotics his wound doesn't look any better to me. It actually started oozing when the neuro team on call came to look at it. They still believe it is superficial (skin deep) which is good news. One of the neurologists pressed ALOT of yucky stuff out of it but didn't send it off for culture. When I asked "why" he said it wouldn't really matter anyway because they were going to treat it the same way, besides Rayden already has antibiotics in his system so the culture may not grow anything.

When the floor doctors heard that he didn't send it off for culture they were furious!! "If it oozes again we MUST send it for culture" they said. While they were all talking and looking at Rayden's belly he started laughing hysterically. I mean his face was red and he couldn't even catch his breath. All the doctors started laughing and crying! This made Rayden laugh even more! It was so funny. He's such a little 'Ham!'

The plan for today is for Rayden to receive his antibiotics every 8 hours and just hang out allowing them to work. He may stay here a few days just to make sure the medicine is working.

August 8, 2015 "MRSA!!!"

August 4-(Tuesday-Day 1) Today I noticed a little bump next to Rayden's belly incision. I contacted my friend, Kathryn, whose son also has Spina Bifida and had MRSA recently. She sent me a picture of his wound that looked exactly like Rayden's.  I didn't want to take any chances with this infection getting into his shunt system so I took him straight to Dr. Chiodo's office. There were no signs of infection in his blood so she just put him on a strong oral antibiotic (Sulfamethoxazole) She did a culture but is pretty sure it is MRSA.

I CANNOT BELIEVE THIS!!!! This baby can't catch a break! How do things like this keep happening to him? I'm so angry...


August 8-(Saturday-Day 5) Although we were hoping to prevent a hospital visit, after seeing Rayden's incision this morning I knew that was inevitable. I took this picture and sent it to Dr. Chiodo. She called me back immediately and confirmed that we needed to take him on in to the ER.

UNC ER took us straight back. Since he didn't have a fever they wanted to do an ultrasound to see how deep it was. Rayden was unbelievably good during the ultrasound. He actually slept the entire time so the tech was able to take her time and took over 75 pictures. This had me a little worried though. (Maybe it's just my PTSD of ultrasounds!) The ultrasound showed bacteria under the skin but not a pocket of puss. That's good news actually. This means that maybe we can kill it BEFORE it gets in his shunt system.

They decided to admit Rayden and give him IV Clindamycin. This antibiotic is the best option because if he responds to it he can go home with it orally. If it doesn't start looking any better then they will have to use IV Vancomycin. It is only IV-no oral equivalent! That would mean a 10 day hospital commitment! Please God, let this antibiotic work!!!!!!!

I'm trying to look on the bright side. At least Rayden is not in any pain. He is happy and playful. He doesn't even act like he's sick. Maybe we caught it early enough that we won't have to take his shunt back out.


August 7, 2015 "Rayden rolls-laughs hysterically!"

This boy never ceases to amaze me! He has been trying so terribly hard to roll over from back to belly. He could get his head, chest, and legs over, but just couldn't seem to get over his arm. He finally realized that he needed to pull his arm out from under him! I pure cried when he finally did it on his own. I'm so proud of this sweet baby. TAKE THAT SPINA BIFIDA!!!!! 



August 8, 2015 Michael came home from work and went straight to play with Rayden like he does every day. This particular day Rayden thought Daddy was extremely funny. He laughed so hard that he couldn't even breathe, especially at the end of the video!!
Warning: It's loud! But SUPER adorable!!

Saturday, August 8, 2015

July 28, 2015 "Super Hero!"

Rayden is growing up so fast. He is truly the definition of a "Super Hero!" At only 7 months old he has had 7 surgeries to date and been in the hospital for more days than I can count, yet he smiles through it all. He is an amazing gift from God that we cherish so much.

Mrs. Emily is trying some new therapy techniques with Rayden to help strengthen his core. He's going to be rolling over and sitting up on his own before too long.